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Online Dating FAQ

Want to know more about how online dating works? Check out this FAQ section about online dating and you'll be on your way in no time!

Why should I use online dating services?

Singles who have exhausted their local social circles and are looking to meet exciting new people will enjoy the diverse constituency of people who use online dating services. Online dating widens your social net exponentially and helps you meet singles who you may otherwise never have the opportunity to meet. Because initial meetings generally take place after you've corresponded extensively over the Internet, online dating reduces the awkwardness associated with blind dates or meeting a potential match in a bar. Likewise, because you'll already know a lot about your date before the initial meeting, the foundation will be set for a comfortable, long-lasting relationship.

Do dating sites work?

To gauge the success of online dating, you need only to read the hundreds of success stories that can be found on each dating site. With millions of people looking for their match online, is it any surprise that online dating is so successful?

How can I judge the security of online dating sites?

Singles can determine which online dating sites are trustworthy by examining the privacy features that they offer. Reputable sites conceal user details so that personal contact information is never passed on by the site unless the user authorizes this transfer of information. Although no site can guarantee the security of a face-to-face date, all trustworthy sites will also provide tips and tricks for ensuring a safe live meeting.

What is the best online dating site?

The right online dating site is the one that offers the services that best meet your needs. Every dating site offers different services, from two-way matching to extensive search functions through which the user can find his or her own match. We have reviewed the top online dating services to give you an idea of which sites may be the best for you. In addition, most sites allow users to register for free and to get a feel for whether the site is comfortable to use and has a registrant base that interests you. Once you've narrowed down your options, purchase a membership and start dating!

I'm looking for a serious relationship. Which dating site would be best for me?

There are many sites that are designed for singles looking for long-term relationships. Our reviewers suggest Match.com, Perfectmatch and eHarmony, though other websites have also proven successful in leading to enduring partnerships and marriage.

Which dating website would you recommend for finding a casual relationship?

Lavalife is our personal choice for singles seeking casual relationships.

Can you offer any suggestions for writing a successful profile?

If you're serious about finding love online, you'll want your profile to strike a balance between outlining your best qualities and sharing too much personal information (or sounding conceited). Your profile should reflect your personality as succinctly as possible and sound interesting without sounding too vague. If you're not sure exactly what to write, try browsing some other profiles to get ideas or having a trusted friend review your profile before submission.

Why should I include a photo in my profile?

Studies have indicated that singles who upload a picture of themselves to their profile are over 5 times as likely to receive contact from potential matches. If you really want to make yourself look interesting, make sure to include photos of you doing fun things or visiting unique places. And remember- just as you probably won't purchase a product without seeing what it looks like, most singles won't want to date someone if they can't see a photo first. Don't be afraid to show people what you look like- your photo may help you find the perfect match!

Who uses online dating services?

One reason that online dating is so successful is the diversity of people who use these services. While the largest sites cater to people from all walks of life, there are also niche online dating sites that serve people of different communities such as Christian dating sites and adult dating sites. If you're looking for someone with specific common interests, a niche dating site may be ideal for you. If you're interested in perusing a range of potential matches, a more comprehensive site will probably offer the diversity you desire.

How much do they cost?

Most online dating sites range from $15 to $60 per month for a complete membership that includes a variety of searching, matching and contacting features. Discounted rates are often available to singles who sign up for several months at a time. In addition, some online dating sites offer limited packages for less money. Before paying for membership, consider your needs and budget- with so many worthwhile options, you'll surely find something that will meet your needs.

What are the benefits of paid sites vs. free sites?

While some dating services are entirely free, these services often fewer features than paid sites. Likewise, paid online dating services have a higher likelihood of attracting singles who are serious about finding their mate since they are willing to invest in the search. Most paid dating sites offer a free limited membership, so it may be worthwhile to complete the free registration, try out the services, and determine which paid service will best suit your needs before paying for their services.

How long should I wait before I meet someone in person?

There's no specific formula that determines when it's the best time to meet someone in person. It's a good idea to get to know the person through email, chat and phone conversations to make sure that you feel entirely comfortable before suggesting a live meeting. At that time, make sure to meet in a public place and follow the safety suggestions for online dating that can be found on most dating websites.

Can I join more than one dating site?

Of course you can join as many online dating sites as you want- but you may find yourself overwhelmed with so many potential partners! We recommend trying out the free services of the sites that interest you and paying for membership at the one that you enjoy the most after you've tried them out.